He don't want your a** anymore

 

I came across this video recently... it was funny and sad at the same time... It was like she was describing the same guy...  After watching it, I felt a bit comforted that I am not alone... There are many girls out there as well who have gone through the same thing... Where the guy just suddenly decides to distance himself, dumping you while giving excuses about going through real life s*.. It's true that real life can suck our energy from everything... 

It was good advice to walk away... I liked where she started singing, "He don't want your a** anymore..."  Sad but true.  Hope everyone will have a good week ahead. Take care. 

Sad

 

It's Valentine's Day again...  Today, I heard on the radio that Valentine's Day is the most famous day for being dumped... and another story was that a man who killed his girlfriend six years ago was acquitted because he was not of sane mind.   

One year ago, there was someone who said that they loved me  and wanted to be with me... He became my hope and future  ... One year on, the very same person destroyed everything, leaving nothing behind but a heart which is broken into a million pieces.  

Was it because of all the fights, was it because I'm not pretty enough, was it because I didn't have a beautiful body, was it because I wasn't interesting enough... that he lost interest... or was it that I was never in his heart at all... that I was just another passer-by in his busy life... These questions flood my mind over and over...  

Not being sad is an understatement.  Whoever can become friends right after having feelings for that person is someone who is really good at putting up a mask... or someone who never had any feelings for the other in the first place. If all he wanted was a platonic relationship, why all flirtation, why all the play of feelings.... was it all just for fun? For his entertainment? I wouldn't have mind a friendship right from the beginning... but now after all we went through... is it so easy to just be friends? Maybe for him it is just as simple as that, because he never loved me at all. 

In all of my life I never had a Valentine's day which really mean anything meaningful for me... I hope yours would be better than mine. Happy Valentine's Day. 

Busy

 

So when someone always tell you that they are busy, are they really that busy?!  I really wonder... It's not like you're too busy to return a text message...  Even when you wake up you could type a good morning  .... It's not really that difficult to be honest. The only reason that I can think of is that he doesn't want to contact you at all. Simple as that.  

Have a good week ahead everyone. 

Long message

Sometimes it's not about writing a long message... it's just that I have to explain myself  ... It gets tiring to be honest... and I don't like it either.  And then it comes back to you being the long winded person it really irks me a lot.  Meanwhile, others seem to enjoy long essays from their counterparts... It is a really weird world...  

Have a good week ahead. Back to the grind.  

Done

Picking up from the previous strip about communication... Miscommunication is very normal and it happens almost too often...  Sometimes it gets quite deep when there are other issues from the past gets involved.  Different energy levels, mood and trail of thoughts at the same moment also add to the misunderstanding... 

Sometimes when I see young people online posting about being in love and they are so idealistic... smh...  being in their teens the love that they experience is the puppy kind of love...  full of sweetness and fluff... Man, I just can't wait for them to reach adult level...  see if they still think love is all that is... 

You want to know what love is? Love is over-rated to be honest... Love is shit.  

Communication

 

We are all aware that communication is important in any kind of relationship... At work, school, daily life...  between friends, colleagues and family members... miscommunication is disastrous and can cause fights or rifts... So here is someone telling me to be open with him, that I can tell him anything and everything... but I guess that doesn't work both ways.    

 Have a nice week ahead everyone. 

Picking up the pieces

It's been awhile since I've updated my Miss Kacang, I didn't think I would update it under these circumstances...